To drink or not to drink?

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Often at networking events, wine & other alcoholic beverages will be served for the purpose of "relaxing the atmosphere". You will be faced with the question, "to drink or not to drink?", some day if not already. Most people would probably say that it's no big deal to have a glass of wine in your hand while you're mingling & socializing with other professionals. I say, "it's not a good idea."

If you are a college student attending a networking event with recruiters & professionals of various firms which you may be a potential candidate for, you should NOT drink! Why? Although I'm sure just one itty bitty glass of wine won't affect you much, it's better to be safe than sorry. Most people tend to feel more comfortable after having some alcohol content in them. Often times, you won't even notice it because you won't FEEL drunk. That doesn't mean your actions or speech won't be swayed by the substance.

You want to be on full alert while engaging in conversation with anyone. You do not want them to see you for anything other than the dashing-energetic-professional young adult that you are. And if you get too comfortable, you may put down your guards & sacrifice your professionalism. I know sometimes it's easier to talk to people when you feel more relaxed but in scenarios such as professional-related events, listen to me, DON'T DO IT! You will put a lot more at risk than you bargained for. You do not want your prospective employers to see you as a drinker. First impressions sometimes do last forever.

They will have a glass of wine in their hands. And they will refill it. Doesn't matter! Keep your beverage virgin. Trust me. You will be glad.